《pupil rules 》 is Manchu Dynasty Kangxi the Jiang state person



《pupil rules 》 is Manchu Dynasty Kangxi the Jiang state person, Li Yu, of Shanxi show make.The whole bookses are gone into with the pupil in 《the Analects learns but 》 then a filial piety, younger brother, sincerely but letter, be suffused with to love many, but close Ren.Go enough dint, then with learn a text to open an article, with three word rhyme languages of writing form, teach a person how should act towards people to conduct oneself in life.
let me find out answer to the study of the pupil rules.The pupil rules total preface opens an article is educate ours like this:pupil rules, sage Xun, head filial piety Ti, the time sincerely believes.Being suffused with to love is many, but close Ren.Enough dint then learns a text.It sets out from the person's root and educate we want to carry on character to the oneself from this a few aspects of mold.Head filial piety Ti, be say to be a person to want first there is love in the heart, show filial obedience parents.If a person connecting to him and having the parents of the loving care from childhood can not respect, so he lost the root of doing the person, to the elder, to the leadership, to the teacher, to the elder brother and to the friend talk more not ascend heartfelt respect, the affair done by him also arrive an approbation very seldom.
be suffused with to love many, but close Ren.Enough dint then learns a text.The meaning wanted equal Ren while being to associate with the public and, often become intimate with a person who have the kindheartedness, to they study, above these matterses are the roots of study, don't do can not.If did still enough Xia, also needed to study some oneselfs with substantial other knowledge.This is to educate how we act towards people to deal with affairs, how study, usually study the other people's strength, make up own weakness, control himself/herself from each aspect, raise the character and accomplishment of oneself.
dear I, filial piety He Nan, close Zeng I, filial piety the square is wise.Its meaning is: ignore parents, close relatives to love not to love you, you make you do the person's filial morality and respect parents, close relatives.
study 《pupil rules 》 is only a process of accomplishment with personal exaltation, is also a process that the thought sublimates.It is very necessary to a person's growth.Love a circumferential person, love this world.Only so, this society just becomes a harmonious society, this world just becomes a harmonious world.
it tell us to be a person to want to respect, show filial obedience parents first, was parents to grow us, kept big we, have no parents to have no us.Have in 《pupil rules 》 a words being such are dear I, filial piety He Nan, close Zeng I, filial piety the square is wise.Its meaning is: ignore the parents, close relatives love not to love you and all want to the utmost a filial morality of doing the person and respect parents, close relatives, can not forget the parents' loving care from childhood.If don't even love own parents, not filial respectfully, how can love other people again?
the common saying say: good is always rewarded, evil will be compensated with evil, if a person isn't filial to own parents fluently, and brothers sister the friend is on bad terms, so his kids will see in the eye, one day his kid also goes to and studies, own behavior not only will influence oneself will also influence the kid's whole life.Remember a then the small joke is to say, an old man is getting older, the hands usually cringe, his son son the daughter-in-law abandon him, time once had a meal, the old man broke a bowl, the old man's son son the daughter-in-law is very angry, towarded an old man to deliver a fire, from now on after, let the old man have a meal with the wood bowl.One day, this discovers that his/her own son is playing wood to the husband and wife, ask a son at stem what, the son says at do a bowl for them, wait until the time that they are old use for them.This story tells us to the kid had better the most effective education method is a body to teach.
if each person can attain, our harmonious societies are to expect.
the school held Chinese studies recently classic read aloud an activity, I am lucky to read Chinese the distant ancestor work 《pupil rules 》 .Among them, I understood to be a person to show filial obedience parents and honesty to keep promise these two truths.
parents shout, should be not slow, parents' life, go not lazy.The parents teach, the beard respectfully listens to;Parents' responsibility, the beard fluently accepts.The title page that uncovers 《pupil rules 》 , this 24 very short words aroused my deep thought.In ancient times, people have already understood 100 virtuous filial pieties for first of truth.Can at present, we but pretty have no reason to the horizontal parents, face the parents' heat to slice to call, but we ignore;Face parents repeatedly explaination, we are just oral communications to promise, but slowly Be not willing to leave;The guidance that faces bitter in taste old woman heart of parents, we not ready to take advice accept, on the contrary argue irrationally for this, we should at filial piety top and bottom bitterness achievement, attain of winter as far as possible, the summer is pure;Morning province, faint then settle.
being a person not only need to show filial obedience parents, but also want a honesty to keep promise.This then has already mentioned that any speaks in the letter in 《pupil rules 》 , letter is first;Zha with wild, Xi how can.Its meaning is: speak up, trustworthiness is first, promise the affair of others, must obey commitment, hasing no affair that the ability attains can not literally promise, as for cheat or deceiving words, can not even use!Really, all ages, interpersonal pretty much pay attention to a trustworthiness, therefore, we want to every moment keep firmly in mind the advice of light promise necessarily few letter;Insist gentleman one speech, Si Ma Nan makes track for.Of conviction;Do a honesty keeps promise of person.
pass this activity, I not only had understanding to 《pupil rules 》 , but also set up new philosophy of life.In the later years, I should be strict with oneself and do old love of a young, the honesty keeps promise and knows that the book reaches the person of gift.